Girl-Girl Sex shoot FAQ

That’s ok, we’re not really into labels.

Sex doesn’t only mean a vagina being penetrated by a penis! In our girl-girl sex shoots, models kiss passionately, touch each other intimately, perform oral sex on each other, and share orgasms. See some shoots we have made. See an overview of the sort of images we capture in girl-girl sex shoots.

“This is important… She [Shoot Producer Giulia] told me that everything on the shoot should be in front of the camera. We have to position our legs to the camera and really be looking at each other as partners. She was always telling us to look at our partners. This was helpful! If she didn’t say that, I wouldn’t have done that. She told us to change positions gracefully, not just to get into position. I think it looked better this way.” (Gizela, Nov 2021)

In more detail you’ll:

• Touch and squeeze each other’s bodies all over
• Tongue kiss passionately and deeply
• Put your fingers deep into your shoot partner’s vagina, and have your shoot partner’s fingers deep inside your vagina
• Have your anus touched, and touch your shoot partner’s anus (anal insertions are not required, but it’s great if you’re both comfortable to do that too)
• Kiss, lick, and suck each other’s breasts and nipples, thighs, buttocks, necks… all over
• Give committed oral sex to your shoot partner (lick and suck their clitoris and vaginal lips; put your tongue inside her vagina)
• Take oral sex from your shoot partner
• Scissor / Tribbing (rub pussies against each other)
• Have an orgasm or two; give an orgasm or two to your shoot partner

[Delfine has participated in 6 Girl-Girl shoots with other companies] “I would love to make more shoots with Abbywinters! It was really nice. Probably my best girl-girl shoot I’ve ever done!” (Delfine, Nov 2021).

tbh, it’s pretty good fun. 👯

No worries. So long as…

• You’re comfortable with what’s involved from a practical perspective;
• You reckon you’re able to genuinely appreciate the mind and body of another female; and
• You feel comfortable receiving pleasure from a female partner

We’ll help you through the process at the booking stage, in the pre-shoot training you do, and during the shoot itself.

“The most fun was when we had a conversation about each other! I talked a lot! It was fun for my partner. She was so kind and we were talking about a lot of things.She was in shock, I think. I don’t have any taboos! She was new to a lot of things. Things she never tried in her life… It was fun!” (Jenni R, Mar 2022)

[About her first Girl-Girl] “When I was actually on the set I stopped worrying because things were happening…It was all action! It was not as scary as I believed it would be” (Andreea, Jul 2021)

 

Dozens of our models had their first sexual experience with another woman on camera (for example, Paula’s first time with Anneke; Kayla’s first time with Layla; Sondrine’s first time with Emma; here’s a full list and discussion).

“She [Layla, Kayla’s first ever female sex partner, in her first ever girl-girl shoot] took on a big sister role and made me feel sooo comfortable on set. Did you know that we have the same favorite musician? We had to try not to shake our booties and lip-sync during our lovely scene. After our video, we had some good cuddles and we had a chance to talk about the things we loooved doing together” (Kayla J, May 2018).

As on all our shoots, on-set is a safe space. Your shoot partner and the Shoot Producer will be working hard to make the best shoot they can, with positive feedback and teamwork. If you’re uncomfortable, you speak up and we find a way forward that suits everyone. It’s never a problem.

We don’t mind what words you use to define your sexuality, and internally we don’t label models by sexuality. We think you’re awesome 💯 whatever terms you use (or use no terms – that’s cool too! 👊).

From that perspective, we’re just interested in working with you to make a girl-girl sex shoot (btw, we don’t call them “lesbian shoots” for this reason).

“I thought it was really nice to know what to expect. I had a good idea about how the process would go… It was good!” (Paisley, Dec 2021).

But, we want to work with models who are enthusiastic about making a girl-girl sex shoot. If you’re just turning up to collect some money doing whatever you’re asked, this is not the shoot type for you. You’ll be letting down your shoot partner and your Shoot Producer, who are invested in making the best shoot possible.

“The connection with my Shoot Partner was nice! The fact that I told her how I liked to be touched was nice. She liked that too! We made each other feel relaxed and safe. It was really super nice. We were looking at each other and touching each other and complimenting each other…” (Eve S, Oct 2021)

We have some other shoot types that might be more suitable for you – let your Model Liaison know, and they’ll suggest some stuff.

“I think it is important to discuss beforehand what’s going to happen. For example, how we’re going to do the shoot and what is acceptable for the other model and what is not…” (Anna X, May 2022)

“Always making sure you’re communicating with your partner… We talked about our likes and dislikes in the first video. We were really open! I could really explain to Marine what I wanted and what I needed to have an orgasm. It felt like a good environment. She [Shoor Producer Giulia] told us that we’re like two snakes, always intertwined and always touching each other… I kept thinking about that” (Paisley, Dec 2021).

“Eye contact!!! I remember every three minutes I watched the eyes of my partner. Also, the video should not look like porn. No fingers in mouths, no dirty talk like in porn, and so on. Having some communication with the shooting partner, even just 2 or 3 hours before the shoot is important. We know each other, not personally but online, through Instagram and the internet, that helped me to be not so shy! ” (Junie, Nov 2021)

Your shoot partner for a girl-girl sex shoot will be suggested by us and approved by you (and she will approve you as well). And like you, she’ll be an awesome 🦄 abbywinters.com model who has made a few other shoots with us already.

“I connected Really good with my partner 🤗🤗, it was really nice and comfortable. It wasn’t her first girl-girl shoot she had done several before and she made it easier. She was really kind to me, she started to talk to me, she asked me about myself, she came close to me.” (Viviana, Jul 2021)

In this context, “approve” means each model gets to see some shoots their proposed shoot partner has appeared in on the abbywinters.com website, and ask us questions. From that, you make a decision.

Sometimes, we pair a new-to-girl-girl-sex model with a more experienced girl-girl-sex model, sometimes you will have appeared in a similar number of shoots, and sometimes we pair two total “newbies” together. We try different things to increase the variety between shoots for our customers.

“You guys do the pairing of the girls together for the shoots so well. The questionnaire I think is really helpful. You guys did a nice job of choosing my partner. It was a perfect pairing” (Delfine, Nov 2021).

Yes, to some degree.

Overall, we prefer that trust us to select a suitable partner for you. If you feel strongly, give us a “must” rule (for example, “I’m happy to shoot with anyone, but they must be reallllly hairy”). That gives us the most options.

“I enjoyed that we actually got along! I don’t know how much effort AW puts into matching partners, but I’ve really enjoyed the girls I’ve met “(Alexandra T, Nov 2021).

If you know someone suitable, but they have not been a model for abbywinters.com yet, you should introduce us! We pay you a referral fee for each model you refer that we shoot (more info).

If you know an existing abbywinters.com model you’d like to do the shoot with, let us know, and we’ll ask her about it (don’t worry, for sure we’ll play it cool 👊).

Or perhaps you just have some preferences (for example, “I really like skinny girls” or, “I’d prefer to be with a shaved girl”). Keep in mind, the more prefs you have, the harder it’ll be for us to find a partner (or, more than one partner) for you. We’ll try our best, but specific requests may mean waiting longer for a shoot.

We’ll present possible partners to you (usually with a link to their shoots on abbywinters.com), and you get to choose if you’d like to do a shoot with her (of course, we do a similar thing for other models in our system, to introduce you).

We can usually do several girl-girl sex shoots with each model, if she communicates well and is enthusiastic in the girl-girl sex shoots she appears in (more info).

Outstanding models may be offered additional girl-girl sex shoots.

How can I do more shoots in the future?

Girl-girl sex shoots follow a similar on-set process as a Solo shoot: Some admin stuff in the morning, shoot stills, have lunch, shoot video in the afternoon.

However, video for girl-girl sex shoots is captured with two video cameras, so there are two camera operators – the Shoot Producer (who also captured stills in the morning), and their second-camera operator. This person will usually arrive during the lunch break, and assist with the preparation for the video shoot.

“The Second Camera Operator was very nice and very easy-going and she spoke to us happily. She was very sweet but she was not as involved as Giulia [Shoot Producer]. Giulia was getting us the information we needed. The Second Camera Operator didn’t speak as much, she was discreet… It was kind of nice because I didn’t feel like there were so many people in the room.” (Gizela, Nov 2021)

“The second camera was totally fine! It wasn’t stressful or invasive. It was professional and unobtrusive” (Alexandra T, Nov 2021).

They are held to the same high standards as Shoot Producers themselves, though they tend to engage with models less than the Shoot Producer.

“She [Second Camera Operator] was really low-key. She came in and did her thing and she left. It was like she was barely there!” (Paisley, Dec 2021).

 

📸 The images in this FAQ are from behind-the-scenes of girl-girl sex shoots we have made.

Arrive

You and your shoot partner arrive on set, to meet the Shoot Producer. This may be a Shoot Producer you have already worked with before (if the shoot is taking place in the same city you made other shoots with us). Your Shoot Producer will make sure your guys are properly introduced.

“Speaking with the person before is really helpful. I spoke with my other shoot partner before our Video masturbation shoot too. We were more comfortable with each other and things felt more natural that way.” (Gizela, Nov 2021)

Grooming checks

As for Solo shoots, the Shoot Producer does a Grooming check of each model. More info.

Backstage begins

The Shoot Producer will take behind-the-scenes images throughout the shoot day of you and your shoot partner. All the images on this page are Backstage images from girl-girl shoots. More info on how Backstage works.

Paperwork and IDs

As for Solo shoots, the Shoot Producer organises paperwork and captures IDs for each model (usually in Homonoia, our smartphone app for this).

Clothing selection

Again, similar to Solo shoots, the Shoot Producer works with both models to select clothing to be worn in the shoot. You might help select your partner’s clothes and vice-versa. More info on clothing.

Get clean

You Shoot Producer will ask you and your shoot partner to have a shower, paying special attention to your pubic region, anus, feet, and underarms. And, brush your teeth. 🪥

Warm-up activities

Because it’s likely you and your shoot partner have not met before and this is a bit of a weird situation, the Shoot Producer runs some getting-to-know-you activities, that also serve as some planning for the shoot itself.

“Everyone was respectful of my boundaries. I felt like everyone worked hard to make sure we were comfortable and there was consent before everything” (Paisley, Dec 2021).

Chat about the shoot plan, assign Challenges and Objectives

The Shoot Producer will ask for your ideas and share their own ideas on how the shoot will unfold. They’ll also set some special tasks you need to complete in the shoot (these may be secret from your shoot partner, to make it more interesting!) – we call these Challenges and Objectives.

“She [Shoot Producer Giulia] was very thorough and clear that we should be enjoying each other and that we should be comfortable. I liked that about her… There is something to be said for getting the right shot but she valued us doing something pleasurable” (Paisley, Dec 2021).

Shoot “Before the shoot” interview

The Shoot Producer will ask you guys to ask each other some questions about what you think will happen during the shoot. We’ll record this for video. The Shoot Producer might leave you two alone for this part of the shoot, with the cameras on tripods.

“About my boundaries, that was something I was concerned about beforehand, but I knew my shoot partner and she understands my boundaries. We had a moment before the shoot to talk about what we do and don’t enjoy. That made things easier for me to understand what to do and not to do… That’s very important so there are no messy surprises!” (Gizela, Nov 2021)

“Before we had a talk with my Shoot Partner Maddie about what everybody expected to happen about what I liked, what I wanted, what I didn’t want, what I would like to try and to happen and to not. Everything was very clearly talked through. Ursula [Shoot Producer] told us that we had to have this conversation. We did this off-camera and then we repeated some of the conversations again on camera.” (Viviana, Jul 2021)

Start shooting stills

Girl-girl sex shoots are usually shot for still images first, taking around three hours. You’ll both start clothed, likely some sort of non-sexual activity. Then a kiss or a touch… more info on the sorts of things you’ll be doing.

A key difference between Solo shoots and girl-girl sex shoots is that models ignore the camera in girl-girl sex shoots, which means, you never look into the camera for the main part of the shoot (Backstage images are an exception to this rule).

“I really like doing the stills. The first part is low-pressure. You can talk and enjoy each other and have a good time… I had a lot of fun doing the stills!” (Paisley, Dec 2021).

Have lunch

As always, we’ll provide a modest lunch. More info.

“It was really nice! Guilia [Shoot Producer] had her dog and made us tea and made us lunch… It was like a day with friends” (Delfine, Nov 2021).

Meet the second camera person

Video is shot in the afternoon, with two video cameras, so there are two video camera operators, the Shoot Producer and a Second Camera Operator who typically arrives during the lunch break. Like the Shoot Producer, they’ll be professional and friendly.

“She was lovely! She came in while we had our break so we had a little time to get to know each other without the filming. So that was perfect. We got to know each other as normal people, not just people who have sex right now. She was very subtle, very very polite, didn’t take up any space. Which was great because there were already three people there. Every now and then she had a little joke, which was good for the vibe. She was the SCO on my second GGT3 as well so it was great to see her there again.” (Flo, Apr 2021)

Get clean again

You both have another shower and brush your teeth.

Warm-ups again

Some physical and vocal warm-ups again, to prepare for the video component.

Start shooting video

The video part of the scene tends to have less direction than the stills (customers don’t want to hear the Shoot Producer talking!), and ideally, it’s one continuous shot, between 45 and 60 minutes. But usually, there’ll be some stops and starts, and it’s always fine to say, “Hang on, I need to stop!” for any reason. The cameras will stop recording, and we address the issue.

Again, neither model will look at the camera during this shoot: we want you to be 100% focused on your partner. Communicate and be enthusiastic.

“I think I was worried about it feeling overwhelming beforehand… The Shoot Producer Giulia and the Second Camera Operator were both almost invisible. I worried that the camera would be on top of me, but they were very discreet. That was my biggest fear, but it was more comfortable than I was expecting it to be” (Gizela, Nov 2021).

Shoot “After the shoot” video

Sort of a “bookend” for the “Before the shoot” video shot in the morning, the Shoot Producer will ask some questions for you guys to answer. This is to-camera (and to each other). Kind of a “post-game review” of what happened.

“It was easy to work with my partner. It was nice to share that moment with her. I felt connected to her and she was cool and there were good vibes. We started smiling and finished smiling and were smiling even after that!” (Eve S, Oct 2021)

Paperwork finalise

There’s some more paperwork to finalise in Homonoia, to make sure you get paid.

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And we’re done! Typically, we’re together for around nine hours on a shoot day, but it could be a little less or more.

“I felt extremely taken care of by the team. It was an enormous flight delay but I didn’t feel alone during that. I felt supported and cared for.

The shoots themselves were fun! It wasn’t, like, easy, but it didn’t feel like work. I am very happy with everything. I feel like the video and everything is going to look great! I am so happy with the experience and the opportunity. It was a great trip” (Selvaggia, Dec 2021).

When we propose shoot partner options

We’re invested in making an awesome shoot of you and your shoot partner, and that comes from pairing people who like and respect each other, communicate well, and are enthusiastic.

Let us know if you do not like the model options we propose, and we’ll work on some other options. No worries, we won’t pass your feedback on to the other model.

If you agree to make a shoot with someone you don’t care for, it will show and be a low-quality shoot. In that situation, neither model would be offered more shoots in the future! So let’s work together to make the shoot awesome!

“My partner was fucking amazing. We actually talk still! Maybe we will go to a museum together sometime soon… I love her!” (Elza, May 2021)

Weeks before the shoot

If you come to not like the model you’ve been paired with for the shoot (but after you have said you’d like to do a shoot with her), let us know – earlier is better. We’ll work on organising an alternative.

We won’t tell your shoot partner why the shoot needs to be re-organised.

Morning of the shoot

It’s likely the first time you meet your shoot partner will be on-set on the morning of the shoot. You Shoot Producer will run some getting-to-know-you activities (not lame, promise!), which should help break the ice.

If you find you’re uncomfortable making an intimate shoot with your shoot partner at this time, ask for a chat in private with your Shoot Producer to share your concerns. Like us, they want to make an awesome shoot but they know that the key to shoot quality is models getting on well together, and so they can make the decision to cancel the shoot if there are no other options.

During the shoot

Canceling a shoot at this stage is a problem, but it’s still possible.

If you find that during the shoot, you cannot make a good shoot with your shoot partner, consider that the problem might be fixable – maybe changing the position, communicating better, washing something more thoroughly?

Speaking up in an uncomfortable situation takes courage, and there’s no easy way to do it – other than to imagine the positive outcome.

But if necessary, the Shoot Producer can cancel the shoot during the shoot.

“My boundaries were 100% respected. I felt safe and I didn’t feel like anyone wanted to push my boundaries. That is so important! ” (Anna X, May 2022)

We got you bae. 👍

On the shoot day, before the shoot starts, your Shoot Producer will ask you and your shoot partner to have a shower with special attention to your vulvas and anuses (and again after lunch).

If this is a concern for you, let your Shoot Producer know before the shoot day, and they will have a quiet word with your shoot partner – being sure not to mention it was you who brought this up.

Good point. 🤨

As a company, we must be careful to make sure everyone knows what they are getting into and that no one is placed at undue risk. Unfortunately, that can create a bit of a downer leading up to the shoot, with so many “compliance” things to attend to.

Luckily, on the shoot itself, it’s not like that at all!

“Everyone was really respectful. The fact that my Shoot Partner and I talked before the shooting and Giulia [Shoot Producer] put an emphasis on letting each other know what we don’t like but in a nice way… It was perfect because we were pretty much equal with what we like and don’t like.” (Eve S, Oct 2021)

The atmosphere is relaxed and playful while getting ready, then as the shoot starts both models – who maybe had been a little nervous – usually let their bodies take over, and really let loose their sexual selves.

“It was really just so nice experience. I came back home and I was so happy. It felt like we’ve been working a lot but it doesn’t feel like work. I have more shoots coming up soon. I am so excited!” (Delfine, Nov 2021).

“After the shoot, we were eating and chatting and joking around. We were telling stories and I love this connection. This is my favorite part of the model work! Meeting new people and having fun like you are friends or partners already.

Working with AW is so fun and comfy!” (Elza, May 2021).

 

First – and this is nothing to do with your shoot – we just want to make sure you have seen these awesome period panties.

Back to That Time Of The Month. There’s a few ways to go about this – we’re ok with any of them, you and your shoot partner choose.

Riding the cotton pony? 🎠 You can reschedule the shoot. Let us know – of course we know these things happen, as does your shoot partner. However, we may not be able to organise a shoot on another date with the same shoot partner. But there’s no question we still want to make shoots with you. Letting us know earlier is better.

Shark week? 🦈Use a sponge. We do the shoot anyway, but you use a “sea sponge” inside your vagina so no blood comes out – a “moon cup” is also an option. We’ll check if your partner is ok with that because it does affect how you taste.

Surfing the crimson wave? 🌊 We can do the shoot anyway, with no barriers and lots of blood on faces. Not many people are comfortable with this, but we’d like to try it if you guys are down.

For fun – because periods mostly suck – here are some of our fave terms for menstruation from around the world:

• Denmark: “Der Er Kommunister i Lysthuset” (“There are communists in the funhouse”)
• Some women in South Africa might say “Granny’s stuck in traffic”
• A French term is “Les Anglais ont debarqué” – “The English have landed”
• “Got the painters in” (this must be British, right?)
• In German, erdbeerwoche (strawberry week)
• Worst one? “I’m on the blob”

Good question! Your health is super important to us, especially your sexual health 👩‍⚕️.

“I noticed from what my partner Wendy T saying that she’s concerned about her health and she explained all of her routines to prevent common vaginal infections.

I felt it calming that she knew about her body and how to take care of herself.I am concerned about myself and my health and to hear that she’s the same and that she wants to stay healthy was good to hear. I want to stay healthy too 🤩! ” (Anna X, May 2022)

We have a page with more detailed info on STI testing, but the short version is:

• You’ll both be tested (at our expense) for a range of Sexually Transmitted Infections (STI’s).
• There’s a blood test 💉, maybe a vaginal swab, and maybe urine (it’s up to your doctor to decide).
• You get a copy of the results a few days later. You send them to us.
• The results are reviewed by us, and if approved by us, shown to your Shoot Producer and shoot partner on the day of the shoot
• Only people with business needs can see your STI test results. More info on how we handle your data is in our Privacy Policy.

If you test positive for an STI, it’s no problem: get treated by a doctor and get re-tested. When you’re all clear, we can proceed.

STI tests are an important step, but they are not foolproof (for example, you can have an infection that’s still developing when you’re tested, that only becomes detectable by tests later, but is still transmissible).

“I felt very comfortable knowing my partner was sexually healthy. I would even say I found it very sexy…I like having sex with new people but there is always a possible risk and you’re quite restricted in what you can do regarding fluid exchange…So this was really free and carefree and I really enjoyed it” (Flo, Apr 2021).

After being tested, to reduce the chances of catching an STI, we require that you:

• Do not have unprotected sex with people who have not themselves been recently tested clear for STI’s.
• Don’t get any tattoo work done
• Don’t get any new piercings
• Don’t participate in intravenous drug use

On the day of the shoot, we ask you to sign a “Risk acknowledgment”, where you agree that there are risks of STI transmission when having sex with another person.

“I’ve done STI testing three times now and we always speak about it before. There was no danger!” (Gizela, Nov 2021).

At any stage, you can choose not to go ahead with the shoot if you do not feel comfortable (as can your shoot partner) – for health risks, or any other reason. In our experience, because of the preparation we do, shoot cancellations seldom occur – but they are always an option for models (and for the Shoot Producer).

(btw, we do not use “dental dams” for oral sex in our girl-girl sex scenes – our shoots are full-contact).

From following this process, in the ~700 Girl-Girl sex shoots, we have made in the last 20 years, our models have had very few sexual health issues.

We believe it’s important that models understand what we’re trying to create, so their input can be incorporated into the shoot.

“I spoke with Giulia [Shoot Producer] and she told us everything that came to her mind. She wanted me to know everything and I asked a lot of questions on the set on the shoot day. She was always checking on me, asking if I needed food… It was a Mom-vibe. My questions and doubts were eased with the information she gave. There were no surprises during the shoot.” (Gizela, Nov 2021)

Current training

Currently, we have an informative presentation that we go through with models. This is sometimes done ahead of the shoot day via a video call but more often done on the morning of the shoot day on-set, by your Shoot Producer.

We will contact you to set this up ahead of your first girl-girl sex shoot day.

“Ursula, the Shoot Producer gave me an explanation of what was going to happen, how the frames would be the type of things they record. There was like an objective, like a goal that you had to push through during the shooting. She had a presentation on her computer with pictures and a little bit of writing information.” (Viviana, Jul 2021)

Girl-girl sex shoot training in the future

In 2022, we’re working on some self-directed training for models making girl-girl sex shoots with us. This will free up some time on the shoot day so we can spend it making the shoot itself, not the rushed setting-expectations stuff we do currently.

The new training is not ready yet, but we expect it’ll include some online training, a phone call about those leanings, and some in-person training on the morning of your first girl-girl sex shoot.

Once you’ve done the training and your girl-girl sex shoot, you’ll become a mentor for other models – on the morning of future girl-girl sex shoots, you’ll assist the Shoot Producer in getting new girl-girl sex models (your shoot partner) up to speed.

Our customers like to believe that women shouldn’t need “alternative penises” (dildos) to enjoy themselves together, and we’ve capitalised on that by not shooting with them in girl-girl sex shoots, or similar (so, no vibrators either).

If you have some other kinds of sex toys (that is, not vibrators or dildos) that you reckon might be fun, ask your Shoot Producer if they can be used in the shoot – they probably can!

We can all agree that lube is pretty useful! 🛢️ 🖐️

There’s no problem using lube in girl-girl shoots, but we’re always careful to use the minimum amount necessary. Don’t squirt out a cupcake 🧁 sized blob on your hand, whack it on your partner’s vulva, then insert your pinkie finger inside her vagina – that’s overkill. ⚰️

Too much lube makes the scene feel like a professional porn setting (where lube use is common, and distracting if used poorly) – we can always see too much lube because it gets everywhere, on the floor, on the thighs, dribbling down to the knees.

A little bit of lube goes a long way – aim for a pinkie-fingernail sized blob first. Apply to the area, give it a go. Not enough? Add another pinkie-fingernail sized blob, and see how it goes.

It’s fine to do this many times if necessary, but stop when it’s enough (and add a little more later in the scene if necessary for comfort).

Shoot Producers will be be on watch for this and may remind you.

We expect three main things: to take safety seriously, communicate and be enthusiastic.

Take safety seriously

We require STI tests for models participating in our girl-girl sex shoots (an overview; more detailed info), but they do not work alone. Models must refrain from risky sexual or lifestyle behaviours (such as unprotected sex) after being tested, until  all booked shoots are completed.

Communicate

Good two-way communication is the key to a happy life 😌. We expect you to…

• • Communicate with us, about
    • Your shoot-partner preferences, if any
    • The scheduling of the shoot
    • Your sexual preferences in the shoot
    • Your grooming leading up to the shoot

“I think everything was well about boundaries… I don’t remember a moment when they were not respected.” (Victoria R, Oct 2021)

“I think the Girl-Girl shoot goes faster than any other shoot. So having only one orgasm was good. I think my boundaries were respected and I was respected and I felt like I was doing meaningful work and I had fun!” (Andreea, Jul 2021)

• • Communicate with your Shoot Producer, about
    • Your readiness to shoot
    • How you’re feeling on the shoot day

• • Communicate with your shoot partner, about
    • Before the shoot, how they could pleasure you
    • During the shoot, how they should pleasure you (they’ll expect the same from you)

“We had a friendly and intimate connection. I felt safe around her because we discussed our preferences and boundaries. It made me feel good to know that I wouldn’t have to do anything I don’t like! It was good of her to discuss that with me, and good on Giulia [Shoot Producer] to organise that conversation.” (Anna X, May 2022)

That’s communication. It rocks! 😎

Be enthusiastic

Your enthusiasm for the shoot is incredibly important to us. Making a good shoot will keep our customers happy (meaning, they will buy more of our product, so we can pay models to appear in more shoots in the future).

In a practical sense, that comes from actually having a good time. Your partner will have a good time in the shoot if you do what they have requested, with devotion and passion – at the same time, sharing what you like with your shoot partner and helping her do it to you will help you be enthusiastic about what’s happening!

“I feel fine about making more girl-girl shoots. I’d love to work with other girls and make some cool friends! I love to work with abbywinters.com!” (Jenni R, Mar 2022)

During the shoot, there’s not much to remember, other than to communicate with and be enthusiastic towards your shoot partner. She’ll do the same for you.

Before the shoot, we’ll set you a Challenge (how you will “prove” you’re really into your shoot partner) and an Objective (something specific you need to achieve during the shoot) – your partner will have her own Challenge and Objective. We find having these keeps it interesting on shoots and causes us to have some more variety between the girl-girl sex shoots we make.

(Instead of every shoot following the exact same pattern, we want customers to think, “oh, that’s the one where Jane does xyz to Mary – I love that one!”).

“Compared to other Girl-Girl shoots I’ve done with other companies where some girls just want to show up and make money, it felt like everyone was in-tune with their own sexuality. It was very authentic” (Paisley, Dec 2021).

Who’s to say what a “normal” orgasm is anyway? 🤔

In some ways, we are (we’ve filmed several thousand of them over the last 20 years). But there’s always someone new out there, and our horizons are always being expanded. Human sexuality is wonderful like that!

We know that in real life, every woman doesn’t scream down the walls as they have sex, and we delight in celebrating the ‘real’. Some models have shared they’re a bit shy about how ‘quiet’ their orgasms are but our Shoot Producers are trained to capture the small details and customers love seeing the different ways that different ladies’ bodies genuinely react to pleasure.

Think Pokemon – we like to capture them all!

“Most enjoyable was when I saw how my partner had an orgasm! It was really perfect! It was awesome” (Milana, Aug 2021).

What is normal for you will be different to what is normal for other models but the beauty of the real-ness is still the same. So all we ask is that you do not “enhance” your real reactions.

So if you are quiet 🤫 + 🤩, that’s ok! Enjoy your moment, we will capture the small signs that show you’ree experiencing internal bliss.

If you are a screamer 😮 + 🤩, that’s also ok! So long as you only shout out your pleasure when you are unable to hold it within you any more – when it is real, not played-up for the cameras.

An orgasm at abbywinters should be like a spontaneous sneeze, a physical reaction that your brain has no control over. To achieve this, you just need to relax and let your body and your shoot partner do the rest.

But, if you simply never have an orgasm during sex, this might not be the right shoot type for you (faking an orgasm is not appropriate, and has some awkward consequences, more info).

Get in contact, let’s talk more about it.

If you’re not able to have a real orgasm from someone stimulating you (without a vibrator), this is not the shoot type for you.

But consider that just because you normally have orgasms with a vibrator, does not mean that’s necessarily the only way. There’s no question that if you usually use a vibe, you can become desensitized to other stimulation, but it’s seldom permanent.

The typical way of changing this dependency is to get yourself to the brink with a vibrator, then manually 👋 🐈 finish the job (alone, or with a partner). As time goes by (weeks or months), stop the vibrator earlier and finish manually. Over time, you’ll become less dependent on the vibrator.

“It was really helpful to know that I am not allowed to use any toys… I usually orgasm using a vibrator, so having three weeks’ notice to get used to cumming without toys. Masie [Model Liaison] gave me the helpful advice to put the toys aside and learn to come naturally! I had some practice time and time to get used to this kind of sex” (Flo, Apr 2021).

Here’s a great article with more background and tips.

A girl-girl sex shoot takes a full day (around 9 hours to shoot the stills and video) – at the end of it, you’ll be exhausted (in a good way)! It’s possible we can book you for several girl-girl sex shoots on subsequent days – perhaps with a rest day in between – ask your Model Liaison.

However, each subsequent shoot depends entirely on how well you communicated and how enthusiastic you were in previous shoots (more info on what’s expected on girl-girl sex shoots, and more info in general about being offered more shoots).

Occasionally, we make girl-girl sex shoots with three models. Some examples include Billie, Flora and Lulu; Alina, Daria and Ekaterina (real life flatmates!); Chloe, Kiki and Larissa; Theresa, Katya and Greta.

We’re increasing how often we make threesome shoots, so if you’re interested, let your Model Liaison know! Models who communicate well and are enthusiastic during girl-girl sex shoots are far more likely to be selected. More info.

Nooooooo. 🙅‍♀️

One of the key differentiators of our shoots from our competitors is that our models have real orgasms from real stimulation and genuine arousal on our shoots.

“I think I connected well with my partner Dalilah, she felt the same things and had the same passion ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥. Like, she’s super hot and she wants me. She doesn’t fake orgasms. She really enjoyed the anal fingering. When I saw her pleasure I wanted to do more and explore with her some more. I am ready to try more! ” (Madison A, Aug 2022)

When you fake an orgasm, you’re not really enjoying the sex – you’re just trying to get it over with and collect your shoot fee.

• That’s disrespectful to your partner – she’s working hard and is committed.
• That’s disrespectful to your Shoot Producer, who’s counting on your effort to be paid for this shoot (Shoot Producers are paid based on the quality of the shoot they make)
• That’s disrespectful to us. We’re paying you.
• That’s disrespectful to our customers. Indirectly, they’re paying you too.

Maybe you’re ok being that disrespectful (frankly, we think people who behave like that are assholes), but we don’t need it on our site, thanks.

Here’s what happens when you fake an orgasm:

• Shoot Producer notices, and reminds you of the requirements
• Your partner feels bad
• Shoot Producer cancels the shoot
• You miss out on being paid
• Your shoot partner misses out on being paid
• Your Shoot Producer misses out on being paid
• We never book you for more shoots

“Everything was great! I liked that the process is very natural. You can decide what you like, what you don’t like… We talked about it all before the shoot and I followed these recommendations.” (Junie, Nov 2021)

We offer you more shoots

After your first Solo shoot with us, we consider if we can offer you more shoots (more info on how we decide to do that). Often, that will include asking about your interest in making girl-girl shoots with us. We’ll provide some info and answer questions you have.

“We talked about the poses and what we need to do in the shoot. What I need to talk about with my partner… We discussed everything, every detail!” It was helpful! I always keep it in mind.” (Jenni R, Mar 2022)

Book shoots in blocks

If you choose to make girl-girl shoots with us, we work on booking those shoots.

We sometimes book models for “blocks” of shoots – a bunch of shoots over a week or so. But models who are local to a Shoot Producer who makes Girl Girl shoots would tend to be booked for girl-girl shoots on a case-by-case basis.

Most important in the booking process is what your preferences are. There’s never an obligation to appear in shoots we offer… but we must be honest here: flying a model from Australia to Europe for just one shoot is not very economical for us.

We prefer to maximize the value from our expense and hassle for you (of flying you to a Shoot Producer), by booking you for a block of several girl-girl shoots, usually along with some Solo and Video Masturbation shoots spread over a week or so.

An example schedule for a first-time girl-girl model flying from a different continent to Europe might be:

• Saturday: Arrive
• Sunday: Recovery day
• Monday Girl-girl shoot # 1
• Tuesday: Solo shoot
• Wednesday: Girl-girl shoot # 2
• Thursday: Rest day
• Friday: Girl-girl shoot # 3
• Saturday: Video masturbation shoots day
• Sunday: Depart

The shoots we offer you depend on many variables, and we may not be able to offer all Shoot Types to all models (more info on the considerations) – we also may offer more shoots than the example above. We’ll work with you to decide what works best for you and us.

Shoot on the next day is dependent on your work on the previous day (more info), and things can happen out of our control that may mean scheduled shoots are cancelled before the shoot day, or even cancelled on the shoot day.

We do everything we can to ensure a booked shoot goes ahead, and if there are problems we work hard to make a replacement shoot happen so the model’s time is not “wasted”, but sometimes things don’t work out as well as we’d like. For example;

Model Jane has flown from the US to Barcelona for a block of shoots. A day before her first girl-girl shoot, her shoot partner’s STI tests come in, and reveal that she is positive for an STI – the planned shoot cannot go ahead! To “buy some time” while we reorganise, we move Jane’s Solo shoot forward a day, and see if we can move Wednesday’s shoot partner forward a day (changing flights and accom to suit).

We do that, the Solo shoot day goes well. The evening of the Solo shoot day, the other shoot partner falls sick, and while she thinks she could “push through”, we’re here to make excellent shoots and that includes models feeling and looking their best. So we reschedule that shoot (maybe to later in the week). No other models are available to make shoots with Jane on short notice, so Jane misses out on that scheduled shoot.

Completing the questionnaire

We want to make a shoot where you feel comfortable having sex with another woman. Maybe you’re an expert and have some strong opinions on how that should go? No worries, the questionnaire is the place to let us know. Or maybe this is all totally new for you? No problem – we can take any ideas and feelings you have and make sure the shoot is as close as possible to how you want it.

The girl-girl sex questionnaire is how we find out these details, and use them to build a “shoot plan”.

Selecting shoot partner(s)

We get your input on who your shoot partner should be (more info), and work to book them for the shoot. You’ll only make one shoot per partner, so if you wanted to do three girl-girl shoots over three days, we’d organise three partners.

“The girl [Model Liaison] was nice, she was pretty good with my style. It made me feel comfortable. Everything was perfect. She was nice, she was cute. I appreciate the fact that the staff really took a look to see if the girl was similar to me.” (Eve S, Oct 2021)

STI tests

Models’ sexual health is important to us, so we require that all models be tested for a range of STIs, and provide us with a copy of those test results (more info on how you know your partner will be sexually healthy; more info on what we test for and why).

Attend Girl-girl shoot Info Session

The Girl-Girl Info Session is where we set your expectations on what happens in the girl-girl shoots – discuss what actually happens in a Girl-Girl shoot, ask you some questions, and answer your questions. Girl-Girl Info Sessions can happen in one of two ways;

1. By video call: After the first girl-girl shoot is booked, a week or two before it’s scheduled to be shot, we may organise a video call. Where possible, we do this with several models at the same time – sometimes, your shoot partner, but that’s not always possible.
2. In-person:  In some cases, we’ll do this on-set, on the morning of the first shoot, with the Shoot Producer and your shoot partner. During it, we’ll also plan out the shoot with you.

“In the shoot, I used the information received in the Girl-Girl Info Session about the poses and about how we need to contact each other. I used the information about holding hands! I always kept that in mind. We had a lot of fun. I remember every detail about how to talk and how to touch and how to make eye contact. I kept it all in mind!” (Jenni R, Mar 2022)

The Shoot

See a run-down of how a shoot day works.

Post-shoot check-in call

After your first girl-girl shoot, we call you to discuss how it was for you – what you found enjoyable, what was difficult or boring. We use this info to improve how we work with models in the future.

“It was a friendly atmosphere. Open, non-judgmental, understanding… It had a good flow. A nice atmosphere. Safe, Relaxing, and comfortable!” (Anna X, May 2022)

 

Most likely, the first time you meet your shoot partner will be on the shoot day (though, it’s possible you will have met on a Video Masturbation shoot day).

The Shoot Producer will ensure you are properly introduced as soon as you arrive, then there’ll be some time for you guys to chat and get to know each other in an “unstructured” way (that means, we won’t be telling you what to do –  it’ll just be you guys chatting), while the Shoot Producer sets up the lighting and camera equipment.

“I enjoyed a lot being able to spend some time together eating breakfast… It made the atmosphere nice and relaxed. It feels like I want to be there, not like I have to be there” (Dalilah, Jan 2022).

“Anca [Zuzanna’s Shoot Partner] was really polite with me. She was with me like a friend even though we’ve never been together. She talked to me like a sister! She had kind questions and she touched me…She was great with me and kind! I was really stressed and Anca helped me to do a great job” (Zuzanna, May 2021).

We recommend you share some things you do and do not enjoy in sex so there are no uncomfortable surprises – it can feel a little awkward, but being open and “up-front” about these things will make the shoot better for you (you should start this conversation because your shoot partner might be more nervous than you 😉). Of course, your shoot partner will do the same. Because sex is all about consent, she’ll respect your boundaries, and you’ll respect hers.

“We talked about an hour before the shoot. We had a chance to get to know each other better and it was so cool. We found something similar. I think we are both sensitive people!” (Jenni R, Mar 2022)

Before the shoot starts, there will be some warm-up activities together – physical, vocal, and getting-to-know-you. Then there’ll be some shoot planning together and getting to know the space, trying some positions, sharing ideas (this part is all clothed and not-filmed).

The first part of a girl-girl shoot is the “Before the shoot” video, a short (videoed) conversation between you and your shoot partner answering some questions about your sexual preferences. While this is filmed material we’ll release to customers, we encourage an honest and open exchange of ideas in this segment.

During the shoot, we encourage you both to communicate openly about your preferences – communication during sex is sexy AF 🧯, and can only make the sex better for you and your partner (and our customers, who are also important because they pay the bills!🤑).

Lunch will be communal with you, your shoot partner, and the Shoot Producer (and maybe the Second Camera Operator).

“That was something I was concerned about beforehand, but I knew my shoot partner and she understands my boundaries. We had a time before the shoot to talk about what we do and don’t enjoy. That made things easier for me to understand what to do and not to do… That’s very important so there are no messy surprises!…I think the time that we paused for lunch was the most enjoyable. We got to speak and have tea and we were all on the same page. It was an informal moment where we got to talk about our lives. It was a good part of the day. I felt more relaxed after that” (Gizela, Nov 2021).

If you guys want more time to share and connect, the Shoot Producer can make that happen for sure (though they also have a schedule to keep – there’s a lot of work to do on a girl-girl shoot day. That means, going to see a movie together is not possible, but a walk around the block probably is).

If both models agree, we can share the contact details before the shoot so you can connect before the shoot (however, some models are not comfortable with that, so don’t be offended if they say no!). Ask your Model Liaison about this if you’d like to try it.

“With Justina, we had a one-hour video chat! We didn’t talk about the shoot at all or what we are into because the shoot is supposed to be natural a surprise…But it was a really nice way to connect before the shoot so that it is not like you are standing in front of a stranger and then having sex” (Flo, Apr 2021).

“I have participated in several shootings with different models, and on a couple of occasions, I have felt that my experience is very valuable for other girls.

I remember that on one occasion a model with whom I could possibly do a shooting, Danna, requested my contact in advance, that could be her first girl-girl and she wanted to speak with her partner before making the decision. We had a very pleasant talk on the phone, she asked me questions about my previous shootings and told me some curiosities that she had. After this talk, she agreed to do the shooting and it was great!!

I also remember that the model Andreea told me that she had been offered to do her first shoot with another girl, and she wanted to know how my experience had been since my first girl-girl was with abbywinters. I had the opportunity to tell her all about my experience, how I made the decision and what had been important to me when I did it, she also asked me many questions that she had and shared her fears with me. I was very happy when she told me that she finally did the shoot and had a great time, she thanked me for having the opportunity to talk to me about it” (Valeria, Jan 2022).