If you’re not able to have a real orgasm from someone stimulating you (without a vibrator), this is not the shoot type for you.
But consider that just because you normally have orgasms with a vibrator, does not mean that’s necessarily the only way. There’s no question that if you usually use a vibe, you can become desensitized to other stimulation, but it’s seldom permanent.
The typical way of changing this dependency is to get yourself to the brink with a vibrator, then manually 👋 🐈 finish the job (alone, or with a partner). As time goes by (weeks or months), stop the vibrator earlier and finish manually. Over time, you’ll become less dependent on the vibrator.
“It was really helpful to know that I am not allowed to use any toys… I usually orgasm using a vibrator, so having three weeks’ notice to get used to cumming without toys. Masie [Model Liaison] gave me the helpful advice to put the toys aside and learn to come naturally! I had some practice time and time to get used to this kind of sex” (Flo, Apr 2021).
