Most likely, the first time you meet your shoot partner will be on the shoot day (though, it’s possible you will have met on a Video Masturbation shoot day).
The Shoot Producer will ensure you are properly introduced as soon as you arrive, then there’ll be some time for you guys to chat and get to know each other in an “unstructured” way (that means, we won’t be telling you what to do – it’ll just be you guys chatting), while the Shoot Producer sets up the lighting and camera equipment.
“I enjoyed a lot being able to spend some time together eating breakfast… It made the atmosphere nice and relaxed. It feels like I want to be there, not like I have to be there” (Dalilah, Jan 2022).
“Anca [Zuzanna’s Shoot Partner] was really polite with me. She was with me like a friend even though we’ve never been together. She talked to me like a sister! She had kind questions and she touched me…She was great with me and kind! I was really stressed and Anca helped me to do a great job” (Zuzanna, May 2021).
We recommend you share some things you do and do not enjoy in sex so there are no uncomfortable surprises – it can feel a little awkward, but being open and “up-front” about these things will make the shoot better for you (you should start this conversation because your shoot partner might be more nervous than you 😉). Of course, your shoot partner will do the same. Because sex is all about consent, she’ll respect your boundaries, and you’ll respect hers.
“We talked about an hour before the shoot. We had a chance to get to know each other better and it was so cool. We found something similar. I think we are both sensitive people!” (Jenni R, Mar 2022)
Before the shoot starts, there will be some warm-up activities together – physical, vocal, and getting-to-know-you. Then there’ll be some shoot planning together and getting to know the space, trying some positions, sharing ideas (this part is all clothed and not-filmed).
The first part of a girl-girl shoot is the “Before the shoot” video, a short (videoed) conversation between you and your shoot partner answering some questions about your sexual preferences. While this is filmed material we’ll release to customers, we encourage an honest and open exchange of ideas in this segment.
During the shoot, we encourage you both to communicate openly about your preferences – communication during sex is sexy AF 🧯, and can only make the sex better for you and your partner (and our customers, who are also important because they pay the bills!🤑).
Lunch will be communal with you, your shoot partner, and the Shoot Producer (and maybe the Second Camera Operator).
“That was something I was concerned about beforehand, but I knew my shoot partner and she understands my boundaries. We had a time before the shoot to talk about what we do and don’t enjoy. That made things easier for me to understand what to do and not to do… That’s very important so there are no messy surprises!…I think the time that we paused for lunch was the most enjoyable. We got to speak and have tea and we were all on the same page. It was an informal moment where we got to talk about our lives. It was a good part of the day. I felt more relaxed after that” (Gizela, Nov 2021).
If you guys want more time to share and connect, the Shoot Producer can make that happen for sure (though they also have a schedule to keep – there’s a lot of work to do on a girl-girl shoot day. That means, going to see a movie together is not possible, but a walk around the block probably is).
If both models agree, we can share the contact details before the shoot so you can connect before the shoot (however, some models are not comfortable with that, so don’t be offended if they say no!). Ask your Model Liaison about this if you’d like to try it.
“With Justina, we had a one-hour video chat! We didn’t talk about the shoot at all or what we are into because the shoot is supposed to be natural a surprise…But it was a really nice way to connect before the shoot so that it is not like you are standing in front of a stranger and then having sex” (Flo, Apr 2021).
“I have participated in several shootings with different models, and on a couple of occasions, I have felt that my experience is very valuable for other girls.
I remember that on one occasion a model with whom I could possibly do a shooting, Danna, requested my contact in advance, that could be her first girl-girl and she wanted to speak with her partner before making the decision. We had a very pleasant talk on the phone, she asked me questions about my previous shootings and told me some curiosities that she had. After this talk, she agreed to do the shooting and it was great!!
I also remember that the model Andreea told me that she had been offered to do her first shoot with another girl, and she wanted to know how my experience had been since my first girl-girl was with abbywinters. I had the opportunity to tell her all about my experience, how I made the decision and what had been important to me when I did it, she also asked me many questions that she had and shared her fears with me. I was very happy when she told me that she finally did the shoot and had a great time, she thanked me for having the opportunity to talk to me about it” (Valeria, Jan 2022).
