What does it mean when you say I am expected to have a “dirty mind”?

Guest Direction shoots work best when the Main Model and Guest Director are both engaged in the shoot (as opposed to, the Guest Director just “doing things” to the Main Model, or the Main Model “doing what she is told” 🥱).

The Guest Director has literally spent hours making a written plan to have a dirty mind (with support from the company) to make an interesting shoot, but there’s plenty of room for you to “think dirty” as well.

At it’s most basic, dirty sex is all about trying new things, and doing what feels good, without feeling the pressure of societal norms (or working against anyone’s consent, of course!). For example, you might be pushing some personal boundaries, doing things you’ve always wanted to do, but never felt comfortable to ask.

Or maybe you think of something that would really turn you on, but you don’t want to “get into trouble” by taking control from the Guest Director (this is never a problem – it’s just being engaged in the shoot!🤩). Maybe the Guest Director drop a hint about some sexy thing they like. Or maybe, you think something would just be sexy and interesting and you want to give it a go?

“Dirty sex” is different for everyone, and does not have to consist of “extreme” sex acts (but it can). Some practical examples include;

  • While GD is touching your thigh and talking about something, interrupt her to ask if you can feel her breasts
    • If she gives consent, explore her breasts deeply
  • When you’re both nude, ask your shoot partner how good she is at wrestling
    • Then do it!
  • As soon as your Guest Director’s pussy is revealed, ask to smell it
    • Smell it deeply, and describe how it makes you feel right now
  • Touch your fingers to your own wet pussy, and hold them near your Guest Director’s mouth – ask if they want a taste?
    • If she gives permission, do it, and gently feel inside her mouth with your fingers
  • Ask your GD if you can tie her up
    • Then…
  • Ask the GD if you can pee on her feet
    • And invite her to do the same to you
  • While GD is inserting a dildo in you, ask her if you can put a finger in her asshole

In short, be sexually proactive! There’s no judgement here 🤐.

Our shots are “paced”, to build tension and excitement for customers – you’ll start off doing more conservative stuff, then gradually work toward your highest Posing Level. If you suggest something that’s more suitable for a higher Posing Level, the Guest Director may redirect you so that can be done later in the shoot. Bring it up again, for sure!

We have some reasonably strict “brand guidelines”, which means that not every idea is appropriate. For example, play with faeces, alcohol, drugs and / or violence is never appropriate in abbywinters.com shoots. We also want to steer clear of “porn tropes” (for example, “Let’s see who fakes and orgasm the best!”). If you suggest something off-brand, the Guest Director will guide you and workshop the idea to make an “on-brand” version if possible.