That’s a fair concern to have, they can be a bit… elusive!. We’re not sexual health experts, but we do know a bit, so let us share some background.
An orgasm can feel like a sensual trance and create a state of sexual ecstasy that you can feel both physically and psychologically, a heightened sexual excitement and gratification is sensed, followed by relaxation.
Probably – it’s a little different for everyone – your heart beats faster, your breathing quickens, your nipples become erect, and your genitals become engorged with blood. As arousal climbs, these sensations increase until you orgasm. It feels really good! 🥴 😵 🤯
We ask our models to describe their orgasm, here’s some responses;
- A feeling is going from up to down in my toes … after, my face is just red
- They feel like riding a wave, I get close and if I choose to ride it instead of pausing and giving it space to dissolve, it’s like pulsating waves going up my stomach, and sometimes it makes my feet numb. Also, often I get really cold afterwards.
- Bright
- I feel hot, my body moving and eyes are closed. I feel great pleasure and wanna pee.
- Noisy (when possible ofc). I have to close my eyes so that they can happen. When I’m getting close to it, I feel vibrations, energies travelling around my body. When it’s happening, I see images, textures, sounds and lights on my head. It’s such an intense heat. Then, it goes down.
- They are sooo joyful
- I really feel like it’s a wave that gets bigger and bigger and crashes on the shore.
- They are soft and I’m shaking and sometimes a bit of cream is pouring out if it was intense enough.
- Afterward I can’t feel my legs anymore for a few seconds.
- I relax completely
It’s interesting that each person is very different in how they describe it, huh? 🤔
This guide from the always excellent Scarletteen site has a lot of sensible background to exploring masturbation, so if you’re uncertain it’s a great place to start.
And remember, practice makes perfect! 🎓 🏅 (hey, maybe there should be masturbation awards? 💡)
